It is hard to be patient or in other words to wait or endure through a particular circumstance. Many struggle with not having something done or come on their time. If something doesn't happen NOW then there is an issue. Some worry about, some get upset, and some just end up confused. Whatever the cases, it is a big deal when things don't happen when we want them to happen. Then a questioned is raised...WHY? Why do I have to wait? Why isn't it here NOW? Why isn't this going my way? Followed by even more questions!
There is not always an answer right away, so a person is still left waiting. Impatience has set in and in most cases, matters are taken into a person's own hands. This reaction usually leads to a worse outcome then if he or she had just waited.
We're told to wait on something EVERYDAY! In this world we're pressured to get something today...right now...as soon as possible. DON'T WAIT!
Well let me tell you, PATIENCE PAYS OFF! I learned that the easy and the hard way. I never really expected to get what I wanted right away. My parents were really good at with-holding things or info from me until they felt I was ready to receive. They taught me early on you don't always get what you want when you think you should have it. As I got older though, I grew tired on waiting on some things. For the most part if I didn't wait on something specific to happen, I probably missed out on it or didn't get the full enjoyment, and was left feeling worse off. When I did wait, I reaped the benefits. I have always been happier when I waited on the Lord and waited for something I wanted.
You can also think of being patient as enduring. You have to fight through it. You have to persevere and keep moving forward, even if it sometimes difficult. You may not know what to expect, but you keep holding on and keep going.
While waiting you can be content and accept the state you're in during that time.God will bring you through it in due time.
Wait on the Lord if you're waiting on anything in your life. He is going to be on time. He knows the right time for you to have money. He knows the right time for you to be in a relationship God knows the right time to take you out of a struggle. He knows the right time for every circumstance.
Yes, in some cases you should make a move and you'll know for sure, but we all know about the times when we have to wait. So when those times come about JUST WAIT. You'll know what to do by prayer, reading His word, and trusting in His will for your life.
Psalm 37:7a
"Be still before the
Lord and wait patiently for Him;"
Psalm 37:34a
"Wait for the
Lord and keep His way"
Proverbs 27:14 "Wait for the LORD; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the LORD!"